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Private women’s health · Same-week appointments · NICE NG23

Perimenopause & menopause.

Perimenopause is the transition leading up to menopause, often starting in the early to mid-40s and lasting years. NHS care for menopause varies widely — some GPs offer excellent support, others have very limited time. If you want unhurried, individualised assessment by a clinician who treats menopause as more than a checklist, we can see you within a week.

Appointment waitTypically 1–7 days
Consultation length30–45 minutes
ApproachNICE NG23, BMS aligned

Educational information — not a substitute for clinical assessment

This page describes perimenopause and menopause in general terms to help you decide whether assessment may be helpful. It is not a diagnostic tool. If you recognise yourself in what follows, please book a consultation.

When to seek urgent medical attention

Most menopause symptoms are not emergencies, but the following require prompt assessment with your NHS GP, or A&E if the situation is acute:

This page is general health information, not personalised medical advice. If you’re unsure whether something needs urgent care, contact NHS 111 (free, 24/7) or call us during clinic hours.

What is perimenopause?

Perimenopause is the years leading up to menopause — the point at which menstruation stops permanently. During perimenopause, ovarian function declines unevenly, causing hormone levels (oestrogen, progesterone, and testosterone) to fluctuate and gradually fall. These hormonal changes produce the recognisable symptoms.

The full transition typically takes between 4 and 10 years. Menopause itself is defined retrospectively, as 12 consecutive months without a period. The average UK woman reaches menopause at 51, but there is a wide normal range from the mid-40s to mid-50s. Around 1 in 100 women experience menopause before age 40 (premature ovarian insufficiency), which has different management implications.

Perimenopause is not a deficiency or a disease. It is a normal life transition. However, the symptoms can significantly affect quality of life, work, and relationships, and they are treatable. Many women describe the perimenopause years as the hardest of their lives until they get the right support — and the easiest once they do.

~4–10 yrs

typical duration of perimenopause. Average UK menopause age is 51. Premature menopause (under 40) needs specific assessment and treatment.

Symptoms

The list of perimenopause symptoms is long because oestrogen receptors are found throughout the body. Different women experience different combinations, with varying severity. You don’t need to have hot flushes for it to be menopause.

Vasomotor symptoms

  • Hot flushes (sudden waves of heat, often with sweating and flushing of the face/neck)
  • Night sweats (sometimes drenching, disrupting sleep)
  • Heart palpitations or sensations of feeling the heartbeat

Menstrual changes

  • Irregular cycles — shorter, longer, skipped
  • Heavier or lighter bleeding
  • Spotting between periods (always worth checking)

Psychological and cognitive

  • Low mood, anxiety, or new emotional volatility
  • Reduced confidence, often described as feeling "not myself"
  • "Brain fog" — word-finding difficulty, reduced concentration, memory lapses
  • Loss of motivation
  • Worsening of any pre-existing anxiety or depression

Sleep

  • Difficulty falling asleep
  • Frequent night-waking (often with sweating)
  • Early morning waking and inability to return to sleep

Urogenital (vaginal/bladder)

  • Vaginal dryness, itching, or discomfort
  • Pain or discomfort during sex
  • Increased urinary frequency or urgency
  • Recurrent UTIs (oestrogen deficiency changes vaginal flora)
  • Reduced libido

Musculoskeletal and other

  • Joint aches and stiffness (very common, often misattributed to ageing)
  • Headaches, including new migraines or change in existing pattern
  • Weight changes, particularly around the abdomen
  • Skin changes — dryness, thinning
  • Hair changes — thinning on the head, sometimes new facial hair
  • Breast tenderness
  • Dry eyes, mouth, or sensitive teeth

Brain fog, joint pain, anxiety, and tiredness are the symptoms most commonly missed or dismissed. They are real and treatable.

When does it start?

Most women begin perimenopause in their early to mid-40s, but it can start earlier. Symptoms often begin while periods are still regular, which is one reason perimenopause is so often missed — women (and their doctors) attribute symptoms to stress, work, or parenting rather than hormonal change.

Other factors influencing timing and experience:

  • Family history — mother’s age at menopause is a moderate predictor
  • Smoking — brings menopause forward by 1–2 years on average
  • Premature menopause / POI — under-40 menopause needs assessment and treatment regardless of symptoms (bone, cardiovascular, cognitive protection)
  • Medical menopause — from chemotherapy, ovarian surgery, or some other treatments, can be abrupt
  • Surgical menopause — after removal of both ovaries, also abrupt and severe

How we assess at MHW

How private assessment differs

Menopause is a clinical diagnosis, made on symptoms and age. Most women over 45 with typical symptoms don’t need blood tests — NICE guidance is clear on this. What they need is unhurried discussion with a clinician who knows menopause well, takes the symptoms seriously, and helps them make an informed treatment decision. That’s what we provide.

1. Discussion

A thorough conversation about your symptoms, cycles, family history, medical history, lifestyle, and what matters most to you. We’ll ask about contraception, vaccination, smear history, breast awareness, and other factors that influence treatment options. This typically takes 30–45 minutes — longer than a standard NHS appointment, by design.

2. Examination and tests if needed

For most women, perimenopause and menopause are diagnosed clinically. Blood tests are typically not needed for women over 45 with typical symptoms (per NICE guidance). However, we may suggest:

  • FSH and oestradiol if you’re under 45 (to assess for premature menopause)
  • Thyroid function (an important mimic of menopause symptoms)
  • Iron studies (common cause of fatigue in this age group)
  • Vitamin D (low levels worsen joint pain and mood)
  • Blood pressure, cholesterol, glucose — cardiovascular risk markers for HRT decision-making
  • Bone density (DXA) where indicated

Tests are quoted before we order them; nothing is taken without your consent.

3. Personalised plan

You leave with a clear, written plan covering treatment options (lifestyle, HRT, non-hormonal options), what to expect, and a follow-up timeline. You can choose to start treatment that day, take time to consider, or focus on lifestyle changes first.

Treatment options

Treatment is individualised based on your symptoms, preferences, medical history, and what you want to achieve. There is no one "right" answer.

Hormone replacement therapy (HRT)

HRT is the most effective treatment for menopausal symptoms. It replaces the oestrogen (and, for women with a uterus, progesterone) that your body is no longer producing. For most women in their 40s and 50s, the benefits outweigh the risks, but the decision is individual. See the dedicated section below.

Non-hormonal options

For women who cannot or choose not to take HRT, there are evidence-based non-hormonal options for specific symptoms, including treatment for vasomotor symptoms, low mood, anxiety, and sleep. Vaginal symptoms can be treated separately with local treatment, which carries minimal systemic absorption and is suitable for almost everyone. We discuss the options that fit your specific situation.

Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT)

NICE-recommended for menopausal symptoms including hot flushes, sleep, and mood. CBT does not replace HRT but works alongside or as an alternative for women who prefer non-pharmacological approaches.

About HRT

HRT is the most discussed and most misunderstood aspect of menopause care. Here is the current evidence-based picture.

Forms of HRT

Modern HRT typically uses body-identical hormones — oestradiol (the same molecule as the body produces) delivered through the skin (gel, patch, or spray), combined where needed with micronised progesterone taken orally. This is the form of HRT recommended by current UK guidance for most women initiating treatment.

Benefits

  • Effective relief from hot flushes and night sweats
  • Improved sleep, mood, and energy in most women
  • Treatment of vaginal symptoms (where systemic HRT alone is insufficient, local oestrogen is added)
  • Reduced fracture risk by protecting bone density
  • Probable reduction in cardiovascular disease risk when started under 60 or within 10 years of menopause
  • Possible reduction in dementia risk when started in the 50s (evidence still evolving)

Risks — what the evidence actually shows

HRT carries small risks that vary by formulation, route, age, and timing. The summary picture for women initiating HRT in their 40s or early 50s:

  • Breast cancer — combined HRT carries a small increase in risk after several years; oestrogen-only HRT does not. The absolute risk is modest and similar to risks from being overweight or drinking 1–2 units of alcohol a day.
  • Blood clots — transdermal HRT (gel, patch) does NOT carry the small clot risk associated with oral HRT
  • Stroke — small increase with oral oestrogen; not seen with transdermal
  • Cardiovascular disease — possible protective effect when started early; possible harm if started years after menopause

We will discuss the specific risk profile for you, your medical history, and your treatment options — not from a checklist, but in the context of what you want to achieve.

Contraception during perimenopause

Until 12 months after the last period, pregnancy is still possible. Contraception is still needed. We’ll discuss compatible options if relevant.

Lifestyle approaches

Lifestyle changes are useful alongside or instead of medication and have benefits beyond menopause symptom relief.

  • Regular exercise — particularly resistance training and weight-bearing exercise for bone and muscle preservation
  • Reduce alcohol — alcohol worsens hot flushes, sleep, mood, and weight gain in this age group
  • Caffeine — some women find reducing it helps hot flushes and sleep
  • Sleep hygiene — cooler bedroom, reduced screen time before bed, consistent schedule
  • Calcium and vitamin D — for bone protection
  • Stop smoking — brings the most measurable health benefit at this age
  • Mindfulness and stress management — particularly helpful for anxiety, mood and sleep

Long-term health considerations

The hormonal changes of menopause have implications beyond immediate symptoms. The perimenopause years are a useful time to think about cardiovascular health, bone health, breast and gynaecological screening, and overall wellbeing.

  • Cardiovascular risk — risk rises after menopause; this is the time to check blood pressure, cholesterol, and lifestyle factors
  • Bone density — oestrogen protects bone; loss accelerates after menopause
  • Breast screening — routine mammograms from age 50 via the NHS; private options available earlier if indicated
  • Cervical screening — continue per NHS schedule
  • Sleep and mental health — chronic disruption affects everything else; worth addressing

A Health MOT at this point in life is genuinely valuable — it picks up the things that matter for the next 30 years.

When to see us

Consider a menopause consultation if:

  • You’re in your 40s or 50s and experiencing new symptoms you suspect are menopausal
  • You’re under 45 and your periods are changing
  • You’re under 40 with menopausal symptoms (this needs urgent assessment)
  • Your current NHS care isn’t providing enough time, options, or clarity
  • You’ve been declined HRT and want a second opinion
  • You’re already on HRT but symptoms aren’t controlled, or you want to review your regime
  • You’ve had surgical menopause and want individualised support

Frequently asked questions

Do I need a referral from my NHS GP?

No. Book directly. With your consent we’ll write to your NHS GP afterwards so your records remain joined up.

How much does it cost?

Current consultation prices are on our Fees page. HRT prescriptions and follow-up are quoted separately. After initial review, ongoing prescribing can sometimes be transferred to your NHS GP under shared-care arrangements.

Can I have HRT if I had breast cancer?

It depends on the type and timing. Hormone-receptor-positive breast cancer is generally a contraindication to systemic HRT, but vaginal symptoms can often be safely treated locally even in this setting. Non-hormonal options for systemic symptoms exist. We discuss everything individually.

Can I have HRT if I have migraines / clots / liver disease?

Most conditions don’t preclude HRT entirely; many require specific formulations (e.g. transdermal rather than oral). We work through your individual medical picture to find what’s safe and effective for you.

Will I have to stay on HRT forever?

No. There is no automatic stopping age. NICE guidance recognises that women may choose to continue HRT for as long as benefits outweigh risks, with regular review. Some women stop after a few years; some continue for longer.

What about testosterone?

Testosterone is increasingly recognised as part of menopause care, particularly for women with low libido. It is unlicensed for women in the UK but can be prescribed in line with BMS guidance. We discuss this in consultation where relevant.

I’m on the NHS waiting list for menopause specialist — should I cancel?

No — don’t cancel. A private consultation runs in parallel; you can use it to start treatment now while keeping your NHS appointment for later or for shared care.

What about herbal remedies / supplements?

Evidence for most herbal remedies is mixed or weak. Some women find them helpful; some have unexpected interactions with other medications. We’ll discuss what’s reasonable to try and what’s best avoided.

What if I just want to talk it through, not start treatment?

That’s welcome. Many women come for clarity rather than treatment. We can have the full conversation and you leave with information, not a prescription.

Your care at MHW

Who oversees perimenopause and menopause care at MHW

Care at MHW Clinic is delivered by a small clinical team, with Dr Haydar Bolat as Clinical Director. The specific clinicians involved in your care depend on the plan agreed with you at consultation.

Dr Haydar Bolat
Clinical Director · GP

Dr Haydar Bolat

UK-registered GP and Clinical Director at MHW. Provides menopause consultations including HRT initiation and ongoing review. NICE NG23 aligned and informed by British Menopause Society guidance.

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Languages spoken across the team: English, Turkish, Bulgarian, Bengali, Hindi, Albanian, Azerbaijani, German, Romanian. We can also arrange professional telephone interpreters in most other languages at no extra cost. More on languages and interpreters →

Editorial review

This page was reviewed by Dr Haydar Bolat, Clinical Director at MHW Clinic. Content is based on the National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) Guideline NG23, the British Menopause Society (BMS) recommendations, and current UK clinical practice and current UK clinical practice. It is updated when guidance changes. Educational information only — not a substitute for clinical assessment.

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