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Private paediatric assessment · No referral needed · Specialist-led

Child ADHD & Autism assessment.

NHS waits for child ADHD and autism assessment currently run between two and five years in many parts of the UK. For a child who is struggling now, that wait can mean lost school years, untreated emotional distress, and family relationships under sustained pressure. At MHW Clinic we offer private assessment for children and young people by a paediatric specialist team, with no referral required.

Assessment waitTypically 2–4 weeks
Assessed byPaediatric specialist team
ApproachNICE NG87, NG142 & CG142 aligned

Educational information — not a substitute for clinical assessment

This page describes ADHD and autism in children in general terms to help you decide whether assessment may be helpful. It is not a diagnostic tool. If you recognise yourself in what follows, please book a consultation.

Overview

Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) and autism spectrum condition (ASC) are neurodevelopmental conditions that affect how a child experiences the world, learns, communicates, and regulates emotions and behaviour. Both are common — ADHD affects around 5% of children and autism around 1–2%. Many children have features of both.

Neither condition is caused by parenting, vaccines, screen time, or diet. They are differences in how the developing brain processes information, present from early childhood. Early identification and the right support significantly improve outcomes for the child, the family, and their school journey.

This page focuses on assessment of children and young people aged 6 to 17. For under-6s, assessment usually involves a developmental paediatrician and we will signpost accordingly. For 18 and over, see our Adult ADHD page.

2–5 yrs

typical NHS wait for child ADHD/autism assessment in much of the UK. Private assessment is typically completed within 2–4 weeks.

Signs of ADHD in children

ADHD in children typically presents as three patterns — predominantly inattentive, predominantly hyperactive-impulsive, or combined. The specific features must be present in more than one setting (home, school, social) and have been present from before the age of 12.

Inattention features

  • Difficulty sustaining attention on schoolwork or activities
  • Easily distracted by sights, sounds, or own thoughts
  • Often appears not to listen when spoken to directly
  • Difficulty following multi-step instructions
  • Forgetful in daily life (homework, belongings, routines)
  • Often loses things needed for school or activities
  • Avoids tasks requiring sustained mental effort
  • Daydreaming, "off in their own world"

Hyperactivity and impulsivity features

  • Constantly on the go — running, climbing, fidgeting
  • Difficulty remaining seated when expected to
  • Excessive talking
  • Blurts out answers, interrupts conversations
  • Difficulty waiting their turn
  • Acts without thinking, including taking physical risks
  • Difficulty playing quietly

It’s normal for all children to show some of these behaviours sometimes. ADHD is considered when several features are present consistently, across more than one setting, are out of proportion to the child’s developmental age, and are causing significant difficulty.

Signs of autism in children

Autism affects how a child communicates, relates to others, and processes sensory information. It is a spectrum — presentations vary enormously. Common features include:

Social communication

  • Difficulty with reciprocal conversation — sticking to favourite topics, missing social cues
  • Reduced or unusual use of eye contact, gesture, facial expression
  • Difficulty understanding non-literal language (jokes, sarcasm, idioms)
  • Difficulty making and maintaining friendships
  • Difficulty understanding others’ perspectives or emotions

Restricted and repetitive patterns

  • Intense, narrow interests (often very deep knowledge of specific topics)
  • Strong preference for routine, distress when routines change
  • Repetitive movements (hand-flapping, rocking, finger movements)
  • Strong reactions to sensory input — sound, light, texture, smell
  • Lining up objects, intense interest in parts of objects

Autism in girls is often missed or diagnosed late, partly because girls more commonly "mask" their difficulties — copying social behaviour they see in others. By the time difficulties surface (often in early teens), the child may also have anxiety, depression, or eating difficulties. We are particularly experienced in assessing girls and young women.

When ADHD and autism occur together

Around 30–50% of children with autism also meet criteria for ADHD, and vice versa. Co-occurrence is so common that our assessment routinely considers both, even when the parent or referrer is mainly thinking about one. Getting both diagnoses right matters — the supports differ, and missing one can lead to a child being treated for "anxiety" or "behaviour problems" when the underlying drivers are different.

Common co-occurring conditions we screen for during assessment include:

  • Anxiety disorders (very common alongside both)
  • Tic disorders and Tourette’s
  • Learning difficulties (dyslexia, dyscalculia, dyspraxia)
  • Sensory processing difficulties
  • Sleep disorders
  • Selective mutism

How we assess at MHW

A note on what assessment involves

A proper child ADHD or autism assessment cannot be done in a single appointment, and we are honest about that. Our assessment follows NICE guidance and the National Autism Plan, includes evidence from multiple settings, and is structured to give you a diagnosis you can trust and use.

1. Initial consultation

A 30–45 minute conversation with one of our specialist clinicians to hear from you about your concerns, discuss your child’s development, and decide whether full assessment is the right next step.

2. Pre-assessment questionnaires

Standardised questionnaires for parents and (where appropriate) the school, completed before the main appointment. Tools commonly used include the Conners’ ratings (ADHD), the Social Communication Questionnaire (SCQ), the Social Responsiveness Scale (SRS), and the Strengths and Difficulties Questionnaire (SDQ).

3. School information

With your consent, we contact your child’s school for teacher observations. This is essential — NICE guidance requires evidence from at least two settings. We can also ask the school’s SENCO to share existing observations.

4. The main assessment

A 90–120 minute appointment that includes:

  • Detailed developmental history with you (the parents/carers)
  • Direct observation of your child — play-based for younger children, conversation-based for older ones
  • For autism assessment: structured observational tools (typically the ADOS-2, used by trained clinicians) where indicated
  • Physical health screen as needed (height, weight, blood pressure, vision/hearing review)

5. Diagnostic feedback

You receive a clear written report, a verbal explanation, and a chance to ask questions before anything is decided. The report is suitable to share with school, the GP, and other professionals as you wish.

How we support after diagnosis

Diagnosis is the beginning, not the end. The support that helps depends on the child, the family, the school setting, and the diagnoses confirmed. We discuss options with you including:

For ADHD

  • Behavioural and parent training programmes — first-line for children under 5; widely useful for older children
  • Educational adjustments — supporting the school to make reasonable adjustments
  • School-based support — we communicate with SENCOs and contribute to EHCNA applications where relevant
  • Medication where indicated — in children, medication is considered when symptoms remain significant after non-medication strategies have been tried. Choices of medication are discussed in clinic, with parents (and the young person where appropriate), and follow NICE guidance. Specific medications are not described on this website.
  • Sleep, exercise, diet — all influence ADHD symptoms; we discuss what helps

For autism

  • Understanding the diagnosis — helping the child, family, and school understand what autism means for this child specifically
  • Communication support — signposting to speech and language therapy where indicated
  • Sensory support — signposting to occupational therapy where sensory difficulties are significant
  • Mental health — treating co-occurring anxiety, low mood or eating difficulties
  • Educational planning — supporting EHCNA and school-based adjustments
  • Family support — siblings, parents, and family routines

School & education

A diagnostic report from a private specialist is recognised by schools in England and forms part of the evidence for special educational needs support (SEN Support) and, where needed, Education Health and Care Plan (EHCP) applications. The local authority is not obligated to accept any single report, but a comprehensive private assessment carries weight.

What we provide that helps the school:

  • A clear diagnostic report with practical educational recommendations
  • Direct communication with the school SENCO with your consent
  • Help applying for EHCNAs when the school setting cannot meet your child’s needs without one
  • Follow-up letters as your child’s needs change

Supporting your family

A neurodevelopmental diagnosis affects the whole family, not just the diagnosed child. Common themes we help with:

  • Explaining the diagnosis to your child in age-appropriate ways
  • Supporting siblings who may feel overlooked
  • Managing the change in family routines and expectations
  • Helping parents recognise their own neurodivergence where relevant (often discovered through a child’s diagnosis)
  • Signposting to peer support, parent groups, and respite

When to seek assessment

Consider booking an initial consultation if your child:

  • Is struggling at school despite good support, particularly with attention, organisation, or social difficulties
  • Has been on an NHS waiting list for a year or more and is not coping
  • Has been told by a teacher, GP, or other professional that assessment may be helpful
  • Has another child in the family already diagnosed
  • Is showing signs of anxiety, depression or school refusal alongside attention or social difficulties
  • Needs a diagnosis to access educational, employment or disability support

Frequently asked questions

Do I need a referral from my GP or my child’s school?

No. You can book directly. We recommend that we share the assessment outcome with your child’s NHS GP and school (with your consent), but no referral is needed to access our service.

How long does the whole process take?

From first contact to diagnostic report typically 4–8 weeks, depending on availability and how quickly school information comes back. The clinic time itself is about 2–3 hours across the consultations.

What if my child won’t engage with the assessor?

This is common and expected. Our specialist clinicians are experienced at engaging children of different ages and presentations. We see children where they’re comfortable, take breaks, and use play, drawing or conversation depending on age. We don’t require a child to "perform" for diagnosis — observation alongside parent and school information is what matters.

Will the diagnosis go on my child’s medical record?

With your consent we write to your NHS GP after diagnosis. This is standard practice and recommended for continuity of care. Your child’s diagnosis becomes part of their NHS medical record — this is in their interest for later life (access to medication, reasonable adjustments at university and work, disability protections).

What if you don’t diagnose ADHD or autism?

This happens, and we will be straight with you. Many children referred for assessment have other explanations — anxiety, attachment, learning differences, sensory processing differences, or simply normal variation in a stressful environment. We’ll explain why and signpost you to the right help.

Can my child get medication through the NHS after a private diagnosis?

Yes, in many cases. Once stable on a treatment plan, some NHS GPs and ICBs accept ongoing prescribing under a shared-care agreement. This is becoming less common in 2026 — many NHS Trusts and ICBs are not accepting new shared-care from private providers, particularly for paediatric ADHD/autism. It depends entirely on local NHS policy. We’ll provide everything your GP needs to make a decision, but we cannot guarantee they will agree.

How is autism assessment in girls different?

Many girls with autism present differently from the classic textbook picture — with strong social masking, anxiety, eating difficulties, or perfectionism — and are commonly missed by under-resourced services. Our team has specific experience assessing girls and young women, and uses tools and observation methods sensitive to female-presenting autism.

What about co-existing conditions?

Children with ADHD or autism often have anxiety, low mood, learning differences, sensory difficulties, or sleep problems alongside. Our assessment looks at the whole picture rather than focusing narrowly on one diagnosis. We signpost to the right additional support — psychology, occupational therapy, speech & language, or paediatric medicine — as part of the plan.

Will the school accept the diagnosis?

Yes, generally. UK schools are required to consider all medical evidence when planning support for a child with SEN. A comprehensive private specialist report is normally accepted and used by schools to plan support and apply for additional resources.

Your care at MHW

Who oversees child ADHD and autism assessment at MHW

Care at MHW Clinic is delivered by a small clinical team, with Dr Haydar Bolat as Clinical Director. The specific clinicians involved in your care depend on the plan agreed with you at consultation.

Dr Haydar Bolat
Clinical Director · GP

Dr Haydar Bolat

UK-registered GP and Clinical Director at MHW. Oversees clinical governance of the paediatric assessment service. Day-to-day assessment of children is led by paediatric specialist clinicians (see below).

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Paediatric specialist team

Specialist clinicians

Children and young people are seen by clinicians with paediatric mental health competencies as part of a wider specialist team. Where indicated, paediatric psychiatry, child psychology, occupational therapy and speech & language input is arranged. The specific team composition depends on your child’s individual needs and is discussed at the initial consultation.

Languages spoken across the team: English, Turkish, Bulgarian, Bengali, Hindi, Albanian, Azerbaijani, German, Romanian. We can also arrange professional telephone interpreters in most other languages at no extra cost. More on languages and interpreters →

Editorial review

This page was reviewed by Dr Haydar Bolat, Clinical Director at MHW Clinic. Content is based on the National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) Guidelines NG87 (ADHD), NG142 (autism in under-19s) and CG142 (adults), the Royal College of Paediatrics and Child Health, and current UK clinical practice and current UK clinical practice. It is updated when guidance changes. Educational information only — not a substitute for clinical assessment.

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