Understanding anxiety
Anxiety is a normal human response to stress and threat. It becomes a clinical concern when it’s persistent, out of proportion to the situation, or interfering with daily life. Around 1 in 6 UK adults will experience clinically significant anxiety in any given year.
Important distinctions:
- Anxiety as an emotion (universal, normal)
- Anxiety symptoms in response to real life pressures (also normal, time-limited)
- Anxiety disorders — persistent, pervasive, disabling, with specific patterns
The first two don’t need treatment. The third does — and responds well to it.
~1 in 6
UK adults experience clinically significant anxiety in any year. NHS talking therapy waits are commonly 4–12 months. Private therapy can begin within days.
Types of anxiety
Generalised anxiety disorder (GAD)
Persistent excessive worry across multiple areas of life (work, health, family, finances) for at least 6 months. Often described as "always worried about something" or constant low-level dread. Physical symptoms: muscle tension, sleep difficulty, restlessness, fatigue, difficulty concentrating.
Panic disorder
Recurrent unexpected panic attacks — intense surges of fear with physical symptoms (racing heart, shortness of breath, chest tightness, sweating, light-headedness, sense of unreality) typically peaking within 10 minutes. Many people also develop fear of having further attacks, leading to avoidance of places where attacks have happened.
Social anxiety disorder
Intense fear of social situations, particularly those involving evaluation or judgement. Can range from public speaking specifically to avoidance of most social interactions. Often co-exists with depression and substance use.
Specific phobias
Intense fear of specific objects or situations (heights, flying, needles, animals, enclosed spaces). The fear is recognised as excessive but the avoidance is automatic and disabling.
Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD)
Intrusive unwanted thoughts (obsessions) and repetitive behaviours or mental acts to relieve the anxiety (compulsions). NICE recommends specific evidence-based treatment.
Post-traumatic stress (PTSD)
Following exposure to traumatic events — nightmares, flashbacks, hyperarousal, emotional numbing, avoidance of trauma reminders.
Health anxiety
Persistent worry about having or developing serious illness, despite normal investigations. Strongly responsive to specific CBT.
Symptoms
Anxiety symptoms are physical, cognitive, and behavioural:
Physical
- Racing heart, palpitations
- Shortness of breath or air hunger
- Muscle tension (often shoulders, jaw, neck)
- Chest tightness
- Gut symptoms — nausea, churning, IBS-like
- Sweating, trembling
- Headaches
- Sleep difficulties (often the first symptom)
- Fatigue
- Dizziness or light-headedness
- Numb / tingling extremities (overbreathing-related)
Cognitive
- Racing thoughts
- Difficulty concentrating
- "Brain fog"
- Catastrophising / worst-case thinking
- Hypervigilance
- Difficulty making decisions
Behavioural
- Avoidance of feared situations
- Reassurance-seeking
- Procrastination
- Compulsive behaviours (checking, counting, washing)
- Increased alcohol or substance use
High-functioning anxiety
Many of our patients are high-functioning — they hold senior positions, succeed at work, raise families, and look outwardly fine. Inside, they describe constant tension, exhaustion, sleep difficulties, irritability, and a sense that they’re "barely holding it together." High-functioning anxiety is real, common, and not less serious because the person is coping outwardly.
Common patterns we see:
- "I’m anxious all the time but everyone thinks I’m calm"
- "I can’t switch off — even on holiday"
- "I’m exhausted from worrying about things that haven’t happened"
- "I drink more than I should to wind down in the evening"
- "I’ve been told I’m a perfectionist but I think it’s anxiety"
- "I’ve been on antidepressants for years but no-one ever asked if I needed therapy"
This pattern responds well to a combination of psychological therapy and, where appropriate, medication review.
Causes and triggers
Anxiety usually has multiple contributors:
- Genetics — family history is a moderate risk factor
- Personality traits — perfectionism, neuroticism, low self-esteem
- Life events — bereavement, job change, relationship breakdown, illness
- Chronic stress — sustained work or family pressure
- Trauma — childhood adversity, or acute traumatic events
- Physical health — thyroid disease, perimenopause, low ferritin, sleep apnoea, caffeine, certain medications
- Substance use — alcohol, cannabis, stimulants worsen anxiety long-term
- Co-occurring conditions — depression, ADHD, autism, eating disorders
Particularly worth flagging: undiagnosed adult ADHD often presents as anxiety. Many adults treated for anxiety alone for years turn out to also have ADHD, and treating both transforms outcomes.
How we assess at MHW
1. Initial consultation
A confidential 45–60 minute conversation about your symptoms, history, current life circumstances, sleep, substance use, mood, and any physical health issues. We use validated screening tools (GAD-7, PHQ-9, others as relevant) to track severity and progress.
2. Physical health screen
Because thyroid disease, low ferritin, vitamin deficiencies, and perimenopause all commonly present with anxiety symptoms, we screen for these in any patient where this might apply. Blood tests are quoted before being ordered.
3. Diagnostic clarity
Specific type of anxiety disorder if present, plus screening for co-existing depression, ADHD, OCD, autism spectrum traits, and trauma-related conditions. Many patients have a mixed picture; getting it right shapes treatment.
4. Treatment plan
Tailored to you — therapy alone, medication alone, both, or self-help with review. We discuss options properly so you’re making an informed choice.
Treatment options
Psychological therapy
The most evidence-based treatments for anxiety are talking therapies:
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) — first-line for most anxiety disorders, including GAD, panic, social anxiety, OCD, PTSD, health anxiety
- EMDR — particularly effective for trauma-related anxiety
- ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy)
- Mindfulness-based approaches
- Counselling — supportive talking therapy for stress-related anxiety
Therapy is offered through our psychology team. Sessions are usually 50–60 minutes, weekly, for an agreed number of sessions (typically 6–20 depending on need).
Medication
Several classes of medication are used for anxiety, primarily long-term anxiolytics (typically a class also used for depression) and shorter-term medications for panic. The choice of medication, route, and duration is discussed in consultation. UK law prevents naming specific prescription medications on this website.
Combination treatment
For moderate to severe anxiety, NICE recommends combining therapy and medication. Many patients have the best outcomes with both, particularly in the early phase.
Treating co-existing conditions
If anxiety is one part of a wider picture — ADHD, perimenopause, untreated sleep apnoea, alcohol dependence — treating the underlying condition often improves anxiety substantially.
Lifestyle approaches
Don’t underestimate these:
- Exercise — regular aerobic exercise has well-evidenced anxiolytic effects, comparable to some medications for mild-moderate anxiety
- Sleep — chronic sleep deprivation drives anxiety; treating insomnia is a high-leverage intervention
- Reduce caffeine and alcohol — both can significantly worsen anxiety
- Mindfulness / meditation — effective for many people, often available through apps or short courses
- Breathing techniques — particularly for panic attacks; the physical symptoms of panic are largely driven by overbreathing
- Social connection — isolation worsens anxiety; even brief regular contact helps
- Limiting news / social media — constant stress exposure feeds health and world anxiety
When to see us
Consider booking if:
- Anxiety has been present most days for more than a few weeks
- It’s affecting your sleep, work, or relationships
- You’re using alcohol, food, or other coping mechanisms more than you’d like
- You’ve been having panic attacks
- You’re avoiding situations because of anxiety
- You’ve been on medication for years and want a proper review
- You want therapy but can’t face the NHS waiting list
- You suspect you may have an underlying condition (e.g. ADHD, perimenopause) driving the anxiety
Frequently asked questions
Will I have to take medication?
No. Many people are successfully treated with therapy alone. Medication is one option, not a requirement. We discuss preferences explicitly.
How long does therapy take?
Typically 6–20 sessions, depending on the type of anxiety and complexity. Most patients notice improvement within 4–6 sessions.
Is this confidential?
Yes. Medical confidentiality applies. With your consent we write to your NHS GP; without your consent we don’t.
Does insurance cover this?
Most UK PMI policies cover psychiatric assessment and a number of therapy sessions. Coverage varies; we can provide procedure codes for your insurer.
Will it affect my job / driving licence?
Anxiety disorder rarely affects driving (some severe forms or certain medications do). Employers are generally not informed of medical care unless you choose to disclose, and reasonable adjustments at work are a legal right under the Equality Act 2010.
Can you help with work-related burnout?
Yes. Burnout often combines anxiety, depression, and physical exhaustion. We assess the whole picture and discuss options including time off work, therapy, and lifestyle changes.
What if it’s not just anxiety?
That’s very common. We screen routinely for depression, ADHD, autism spectrum, alcohol/substance issues, eating disorders, and physical conditions that mimic anxiety. Getting the full picture matters.
What if I’m worried I might harm myself?
If you have thoughts of suicide or self-harm, call 999 or go to A&E if you cannot keep yourself safe. Otherwise we can usually see you the same week or sooner; tell us at booking that this is urgent. The Samaritans line (116 123) is free and available 24/7.